Parenting Plan

Developing Comprehensive and Customized Parenting Plans to Harmoniously Navigate the Complexities of Co-Parenting and Child Rearing


What Is A Parenting Plan?

A parenting plan is a detailed, written agreement between parents, tailored specifically to meet the unique needs of their children following a separation or divorce. 

This comprehensive document serves as a roadmap for co-parenting, outlining key elements such as custody arrangements, visitation schedules, decision-making responsibilities, and methods for conflict resolution. 

The primary aim of a parenting plan is to ensure that the child’s welfare and best interests are at the forefront of all decisions, providing a stable and supportive environment despite the changes in family dynamics. 

These plans often include specifics about the child’s education, healthcare, religious upbringing, and extracurricular activities, alongside guidelines for communication between parents and strategies for adapting to the child’s evolving needs as they grow. Effective parenting plans are typically characterized by their flexibility, clarity, and focus on promoting a positive and cooperative parenting relationship, thereby reducing the potential for misunderstandings and conflicts. By setting clear expectations and providing a structured approach to co-parenting, parenting plans play a crucial role in facilitating a smoother transition for children and parents alike during what can be a challenging period of adjustment.

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Why Choose Family Divorce Mediators?

Reduced Emotional Strain

Family divorce mediators provide a more amicable environment compared to traditional divorce proceedings. This approach significantly reduces the emotional stress and animosity often experienced in adversarial court battles, benefiting not just the couple but also any children involved.

Control over the Outcome

In mediation, both parties have a say in the final agreement, allowing for more control over the outcome. This contrasts with court decisions where a judge makes the final call, often without a deep understanding of the family's unique dynamics.


Mediation is typically more cost-effective than litigation. Since it usually requires less time and fewer resources, it can significantly reduce the financial burden of the divorce process.

Time Efficiency

The mediation process is generally faster than going through the courts. This expedited approach means that couples can move forward with their lives more quickly, without the prolonged stress of a drawn-out legal battle.


Unlike court proceedings, which are public, mediation is a private process. What is said in mediation stays in mediation, offering a level of discretion and confidentiality that many couples prefer.

Improved Communication & Post-Divorce Relationship

Mediators help facilitate better communication between the parties. This can be particularly beneficial for maintaining a cooperative relationship post-divorce, which is crucial for co-parenting and ongoing family interactions. By learning to resolve disputes amicably, couples can set a positive tone for future interactions.

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” Stella, I truly appreciated all of your assistance through this process. You were always very friendly and helpful. I liked your openness and candor with us; it helped. You are much more than a family Mediator. You were a genuine person who is very caring and thoughtful. Thank you for all of your time and work.“
Jannie Du Plessis
” They were superb in understanding what I’m going through and how expeditiously it’s to be achieved with less pain! “
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A Parenting Plan is a written agreement co-created by both parents that outlines how they will share the responsibilities of raising their child post-separation or divorce. It covers aspects like living arrangements, education, healthcare, and how decisions about the child will be made.

A Parenting Plan is important because it provides a clear, structured framework for co-parenting. It helps to minimize conflicts and misunderstandings by setting out expectations and routines. This stability is crucial for the well-being of the child during and after the transition of a family separation or divorce.

A comprehensive Parenting Plan should include details about physical custody (where the child will live), visitation schedules, holiday arrangements, decision-making responsibilities (education, health care, religious upbringing), and communication guidelines between parents.

Parents can create a Parenting Plan on their own, in mediation, or with the help of legal professionals. It involves discussions and negotiations to ensure that the plan reflects the best interests of the child while accommodating the needs of each parent.

In many jurisdictions, a Parenting Plan is legally binding once it is written and signed by both parents. Some regions require the plan to be filed with and approved by a court to be enforceable. It’s important to check the specific legal requirements in your area.

Yes, a Parenting Plan can be modified as circumstances change, such as one parent relocating or changes in the child’s needs as they grow older. Both parents need to agree to any changes, and in some cases, the revised plan may need to be filed in court for approval.